I'm a 40 year old man. Been divorced for about 6 years and I just haven't moved forward with dating again. I'm not depressed, or lovely. And I'm not unattractive, I just really don't wanna.

But I agree with you. When I finally am ready, I couldnt imagine becoming involved with a girl half my age, or even just 10 years younger. Even if she was exceptionally attractive. I want more in a partner than physical attraction. And I would hope they would expect the same from me as well.